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How To Overcome Shyness With Women - Learn The Secret
By Bests | April 29, 2008
One of the most debilitating conditions when it comes to getting the girl, is that of being timid and introverted. I know - I used to be an EXTREMELY shy person. So, how do you overcome shyness with women?
First things first, let’s clear one thing up. Being shy does not necessarily mean you are insecure. It is possible to be very confident in other areas of your life, but just shy and awkward when it comes to speaking with women.
You get that feeling of ‘everybody is looking at you’ when you try to pluck up the courage to go and speak to that girl. It doesn’t matter whether you are at high school or trying to get back into the dating game after your divorce at 50 - shyness can affect us all. You become afraid to get up from your seat, afraid to speak, and the more you put off doing these things the harder it gets! It’s a vicious cycle!
I used to be like that. I’m older and wiser now, but there was a girl I really used to like at school. She was slim, pretty, had long flowing blonde hair, but she was the one that all the ‘alpha’ guys used to flock to. Even though she used to smile and say ‘hello’ when she went by, I used to clam up and retreat back into my shell whenever she came near. Over 3 years or so, I learned a lot of things - one of them being them shyness is only a state of mind. Sure that might sound obvious, but when you are young, there’s nobody around to tell you these things.
I realised that when I stood up, nobody was really looking at me. When I spoke, only the people I spoke to were looking at me. So, 3 years later, I overcame my shyness and asked this girl out on a date. Do you know what? She had apparently liked me for quite a while too, but mistook my shyness as apathy towards her, and she honestly thought I didn’t particularly find her attractive. Result! Of course, life is no fairy tale, and it could be that she may have laughed in my face (which is what I was worried about). The Alpha Male does not worry about these things though, and because he doesn’t worry about them, things always go much better for him in the first place. It’s that cycle again - although this time not vicious - where much of what happens around you is massively influenced by your state of mind to begin with, and how you value yourself.
Learning the secrets of an alpha male will have a huge positive impact on your life in all areas, as it did with mine. You will overcome your shyness with women, and also improve your confidence and self-esteem.
Buy all the books you want on mystery methods and secrets of attraction, but the only one you really need is The Alpha Male System. So do yourself a favour, get this one first and you won’t need any more books. Think of all the trees you’ll save too!
Tags: alphamale, dating, overcome shyness, shyness
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